Happy Valentine's Day, Patrick.  Okay, so maybe we weren't nineteen and twenty-one, but I think non-profit work for nearly twenty years definitely qualifies us for "dancing in the minefield". 

'Cause the only way to find your life
Is to lay your own life down
And I believe it's an easy price
For the life that we have found

I wouldn't trade our life together for anything.  Thank you for loving me, caring for me and the many ways you lay your own life down for the kids and me.